Comments on: Why Does My Husband Treat Me So Badly? I’ll Tell You Some Possible Reasons

By: Ken Connelly

Ken Connelly — Fri, 30 Dec 2011 22:13:58 +0000

I think this is good advice – great counsel. Marriages all suffer trouble – but people are such quiters today. Saving your marriage and becoming different people may require intervention and a little separation to drive home the point – but never give up on the fact that God can & will change people – willing or not. And redifine what love is – search out Shakespeare’s Sonnet 116 and think deeply about whether your love for this person has ‘altered when alteration found’ or ‘bent with the bender to remove’. It is my quality of love that is in question – not my spouses.
And don’t give me this propaganda that the children aren’t affected immeasurably, that your community isn’t affected and that your mutual families aren’t affected. This is selfish thinking and angers me greatly. “See to it [my responsibility] that none of you misses the grace of God and let’s a root of bitterness spring up, causing trouble and defiling many.” The grace of God is His ability to change hearts and be in the middle of what you consider impossible.
It matters what we do – and love, true love, will stick it out. If you don’t stick it out, even if you have to remove yourself due to their behavior [acceptable], then it is your character that is in question. And I agree with the above – will it get better next time around? You’re giving up on what could be a good life.

By: a-j

a-j — Sun, 30 Oct 2011 08:43:33 +0000

i really have noticed a pattern in your blogs here and you really must be stuck in the past and know nothing when it comes to woman , telling them to stay attractive and not to let themselves go …….well you can be a beautiful and attractive all the time a man is still a man and men are 10 steps behind woman when it comes to respect in relationships

the fact is men lie , cheat , are downright mean to females on a constant ongoing basis

and you tend to assume all woman are stay at home house wives or something that need to clean up and well in this day and age that is so far from being true

house responsibilities should be split equally for the 2 capable adults in the home not just the female this isnt the 50′s

By: admin

admin — Mon, 29 Aug 2011 18:31:17 +0000

@Brenda – I think you might be reading something into this article that wasn’t intended.

If you’re in an abusive relationship, GET OUT and get help.

If your husband is “treating you badly,” this article might provide a little advice.

By: Brenda H.

Brenda H. — Wed, 24 Aug 2011 04:46:11 +0000

If your advice to women is be more attractive and your husband won’t treat you like dirt, you are an a** h***.

Thank god I was given the sense to not take every word I read to heart.

If there were a site I could report to for the site that supported men not changing to women’s needs but women always had to change for men’s needs….. I would report you – you women hating site!

By: Samiksha S. G.

Samiksha S. G. — Mon, 02 May 2011 10:46:30 +0000

Hi,

I felt relived to see this on net while i was just searching some similar experiences like me in married life.